DOES TRUE LOVE EXIST?
15 ways to Find your Life Partner. Anyhoo…love may be a knocking so let’s get straight to it. Here’s a practical no-nonsense guide to finding your life partner. 1) The secret about true love that will bring you back to reality. I hate to break the news to you, but true love doesn’t exist. In the book, Marry Him; The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough , author Lori Gottlieb cites biological anthropologist Helen Fisher’s studies on the physiology of romantic love . “She found that when you feel that strong chemistry with someone, the brain system that becomes activated is the reward system, which is what also lights up when you reach for a piece of chocolate or cigarette or an amphetamine.” Gottlieb writes. Fisher’s research shows with all the dopamine floating around, it’s hard to realize that you’re simply experiencing a chemical state which can last anywhere from 18 months to 3 years. “Fisher isn’t saying that chemistry isn’t important. I...